YES! THIS SO MUCH. Why can't more of fandom be like you? He's got a brand new chance to do what he's always dreamed of - who the hell are we to try and stand in his way and be angry at him for it? If his boss and his group and his family and his friends are all okay with him going, really, WHAT is the problem. KAT-TUN managed without him before, they covered for his absence and he slotted right back in when he was done. What's so different this time? Except this time we know that the group can survive without him, and that they can take him back. This time we have that security.
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branchandroot
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Date: 2010-03-25 12:39 am (UTC)YES! THIS SO MUCH. Why can't more of fandom be like you? He's got a brand new chance to do what he's always dreamed of - who the hell are we to try and stand in his way and be angry at him for it? If his boss and his group and his family and his friends are all okay with him going, really, WHAT is the problem. KAT-TUN managed without him before, they covered for his absence and he slotted right back in when he was done. What's so different this time? Except this time we know that the group can survive without him, and that they can take him back. This time we have that security.
I don't get it >_>